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All About the Food

24 Sep

Speaking of food (when am I not?) I forgot to mention a yummy treat my host mom made this week. They were like two layer cookies with frosting on top and raspberry jam in between. NOMS. I think I had like four huge pieces.

Then Thursday night, Charlotte was working so it was just me, Søren and the girls for dinner. They told me we were having “mexican pancakes” which, as I suspected, turned out to be tortillas. It was sort of an odd meal, because it was simultaneously familiar (my family at home has make-your-own-tacos/quesadillas pretty frequently) yet also very Danish. The possible ‘pancake’ toppings included both the usual ground beef, red peppers, lettuce, tomatoes, and some very Danish choices–cucumbers, ketchup, or “crème fraiche” dressing (like ranch). We also had ‘nachos’ but there wasn’t enough cheese so it was more like flavored tortilla chips with a touch of cheese. It was all yummy, but still odd. :P

Continuing on the food theme, yesterday afternoon I had my first Fransk hotdog! As I believe I mentioned before, there are hotdog stands all over Copenhagen, offering several varieties of ‘hotdog’ for 25-40kr (about $5-$8, a very reasonable price by Danish standards). Fransk hotdogs are hot dogs stuck in a long hollow baguette with a really yummy mayo-ish dressing. Here’s a picture. I had been eyeing them for a while since the pictures look really good, and finally decided to get one as an afternoon snack for my train ride home. It was even more delicious than I had hoped. The bread was fresh, the hotdog was crispy on the outside, and the dressing was very tasty. Yum! My mouth is watering just thinking about it. :P

I got a few weird looks on the train as I ate my hotdog but it was totally worth it. Since it was rush hour on a Friday, the train was pretty full, and after a couple of stops a family with small children (about 6-8 years old) sat across from me. The kids were ADORABLE. The little girl was starting a little embroidery kit, with a lot of help from her mom. And the little boy had a HUGE cucumber, at least half as tall as he was, that he was just munching on. After a few minutes his chin was turning green from all the juice dribbling down his front. One of my favorite things about my commute is the people-watching opportunities, especially when there are families. I can never understand what they’re saying, obviously, but children seem to be the same everywhere, and it’s funny to see their unabashed curiosity in contrast to the reserved and quiet adult Danes on the train.

Friday night I got to have another cozy night with my host parents (the girls were both out). After dinner, we didn’t have any sweets in the house so Charlotte suggested that we go see the new Netto that had opened up, basically a re-furbished version of the old one in the same spot. Søren had not heard about any new Netto, so Charlotte made fun of him pretty profusely, suggesting that it was very sad he didn’t get an invite. So then Charlotte and I headed out with Maggie to go see the new Netto and bring back some candy. When we got there, though, it turned out that it was so new that it was still under construction,and not yet even close to opening. So we went up the street to Fakta instead, trying to come up with a plausible story to tell Søren about the “fancy new Netto.” Charlotte couldn’t believe she’d made fun of Søren that much and then turned out to be wrong, and we were laughing the whole way to Fakta and home again. It was one of those situations that you just knew would become an inside joke, and it was very fun to experience that with my host family.

That night we enjoyed our goodies from Fakta (two kinds of cookies, Snickers bars, licorice, and hard candies) with tea in front of the TV. Among other things, we watched a Danish singing competition where all sorts of famous Danish singers (from rap to opera) are paired with regular folks with singing talent to sing one of the famous singer’s signature songs. There seem to be a lot of shows that involve collaboration between all kinds of Danish singers, which never happens in the U.S. to my knowledge. I think it may have to do with the size of Denmark, and the small number of famous Danish singers, but it seems like a really nice idea.

Other exciting news from this week:

-Over Thanksgiving weekend (at DIS we have school on Thanksgiving but then we get a three day weekend) I’m going to Amsterdam with Allie! We bought our tickets this week, so it’s totally official. I think that will probably be my final travel planning for the semester because I do want to spend plenty of time at home with my host family. They are already making plans for having Thanksgiving dinner this year, which is so sweet since it’s not their holiday. I will have to show them some American traditional foods, though I’m glad my host mom is an adventurous cook because my skills are somewhat lacking. :P

-Tomorrow I am going to be interviewed about my experience as a foreign exchange student! Charlotte’s work colleague’s daughter’s high school buddy is apparently doing a project and needed to interview a foreign exchange student, so Charlotte told her colleague that they had one at their house. I am kind of excited because I’ve never been interviewed like this before, and I think it will be fun to discuss my experiences so far. Plus I am happy to be able to help someone out. :)

The more time I spend here, the more I realize that I’m going to miss it so much when I go back to the U.S. How will I survive without rugbrød with remoulade and real wienerbrød and even leverpostej? Yes those are all foods… to me location is always about food. :P But I’ll also miss the quiet trains and almost getting hit by bikes every day and all the weird Danish/British television shows that would never be allowed in the U.S. And of course my wonderful host family and my host dog Maggie (she is so excited every time I come home or come out of my room in the morning!). I know I still have three more months here, but by the time I’m actually leaving it’ll only be even harder. Just a few weeks ago I couldn’t believe I was going to stay here for four whole months, and now I don’t know how I’ll leave at the end of the semester!

Is This Real Life?

21 Sep

I apologize for not posting so far this week. Schoolwork has been picking up, so my life has not been as exciting as it was the first few weeks. The past few days I have mostly been working on homework, hanging around the house with my host family, and catching up with family/friends from home. But I have also been finalizing travel plans for our two week travel break! :)

On Tuesday afternoon, Shuyao, Mariya, and I met at lunchtime to finalize our Prague hostel plans since we’d been ineffective at decision-making over Facebook. It took a while since we were trying to find the best price, and all of our tummies were rumbling, but we finally found one and booked it! It was very exciting to have the business/unfun part of one leg of the trip all settled. The next stage was finding somewhere to stay in Paris, which was even more difficult than Prague because prices are so high. I think I overwhelmed myself a bit looking at hostelworld.com, and I would be happy never to see that website again. Our hunting paid off, though, because tonight we found a great place to stay! It’s a rental apartment for a very reasonable price since the manager gave us a big discount. We’re still finalizing the details but hopefully our stay in Paris will be quite comfortable, and we can save some money by cooking food in the apartment kitchen. Overall a big win.

Last night Nanna had a friend, Amalie, over for dinner. It’s always fun for me to meet new Danes and it was nice having another chatty person at the dinner table since Charlotte (usually the main directer of dinner conversation) was working late. I ended up chatting with her for a while about differences between the U.S. and Denmark, especially travel distances and school. She and Nanna were shocked that I have to take a plane to school, I think mostly because they first thought it was a daily commute.

I had a lot of free time today because my field study was canceled, so I slept in very late (about 11:30am). My noontime “breakfast” was a yummy chicken sandwich (which my host mom did not hesitate to make fun of me for) while sitting in front of the TV with Nanna. Originally we were watching some Danish show that looked similar to MTV reality shows, but Charlotte suggested we change the channel to a show in English so I could understand what was going on. At first I felt a bit bad that they changed the channel on my behalf, but I ended up finding NCIS then Supernatural, which are both shows my family watches a lot. I felt very comfortable watching familiar TV on a lazy Wednesday (though it felt like Saturday) afternoon, and for a bit I even forgot I wasn’t at home.

As of yesterday I have been here for a month, which is simultaneously bizarre/surprising and incredibly banal (sixth grade vocab ftw). On the one hand, it sounds so worldly and sophisticated to say “oh yes, I’ve been living in Denmark for about a month now” but on the other hand, my everyday life here seems so normal. I’ve gotten really used to my room, my family, my commute, and even going to school in the middle of Copenhagen.

Why yes, the World Biking Championships are happening just a few blocks from where I go to class. I passed the route the other day on my way to the Royal Library to get some studying done. Why do you ask?

I mean, really. Who says that?

Q: Is this really my life?

A: Yes, and it’s awesome! :)

[In other news, our long study tour is quickly approaching! A week from Monday I will be flying to Milan with my Positive Psychology class. Gelato on my mind... :) But that also means that next week is jam-packed with last-minute homework--a presentation, a test, a quiz, and two papers. Yikes!]

I’m Kind Of A Big Deal

17 Sep

Thursday was the Danish election, the grand conclusion to three intense weeks of campaigning. As I believe I’ve mentioned before, the prime minister gets to announce whenever he (or she, now) wants, as long as it happens before the maximum length of their term. So three weeks ago the election date was announced and posters started going up everywhere, starting that very night. Every morning when I walked to the train I passed several people handing out leaflets and campaign posters were on every post. The interesting thing about the Danish posters is that most of them only show the candidate’s face, name, and the name of their party. A couple had short slogans but I think they were pretty generic. From what I hear, negative campaigning is only just beginning to catch on here, and I think having nine parties and such a short campaign period makes a big difference in the nature of the advertisements. Anyway, the results are out, and you could probably find out much more by scanning the internet, but basically the government has switched from “blue block” (right wing) to “red block” (left wing). And now Denmark has its first female prime minister! :) It’s kind of confusing because the colors are opposite of the U.S., and “liberal” parties are actually considered to be on the right wing here.

In my Danish class on Thursday we went over the individual parties and their main campaign promises. A big issue for the election was the economic crisis, so almost all the parties had different plans of varying degrees of detail. A lot of parties also mentioned education reform and “decent immigration policies” as a response to the recent tightening of the borders from the Danish People’s Party (Dansk Folkeparti), a far right party that is part of the blue block. They were actually one of the main reasons for the change of government. Apparently many people who might’ve voted for the blue block changed sides so that the DF would no longer be in power. I don’t blame them–their policies are pretty scary, and they basically want to close Denmark off to immigrants to maintain Danish “tradition.”

Thursday evening I also attended a meeting about being a DIS official blogger for the semester! Mostly we got pastries, tea, and coffee (my mind is always on the food), got some tips on things to pay attention to while blogging, and then got to chat and get to know each other a bit. We also got our pictures taken for the website, which went up last night. My friend Allie has been so excited about this whole thing that I think she may have been checking the DIS website about every hour to see if the new bloggers had been posted. :P

Last night I decided to have a quiet night in, which I think was a good decision because when I got home at 5pm I crashed until dinner. Of course, then I proceeded to stay up late editing this blog and skyping with my high school friend Zach. Typical. Luckily today was a quiet day for my host family as well–Charlotte was at work and Søren was working outside on their soon-to-be patio. So I slept in blissfully until 10:30 (not exactly record-breaking, but the latest I have slept in thus far this semester) and had a leisurely day catching up on Project Runway and ‘sploring the internet. At lunch I made myself some smørrebrød (Danish open-faced sandwich) with rugbrød (the rye bread) and everything, which I was pretty proud of. I think my topping combinations were probably breaking several rules and Danes would have probably been horrified (Danes are quite particular about which foods do and do not go together on smørrebrød), but I found it all to be quite delicious.

Tonight Charlotte was staying extra late at work because a colleague was sick, so Cille, Søren, and I were all on our own for dinner again (as we had been Friday night). An executive decision was made to get take-out of some kind, and Cille voted for McDonalds, which she loves, so we decided to go there. I had heard that Danish McDonalds was much nicer than American ones, but this was my first time inside one. Søren told me that this one was only a couple of years old, so it’s possible it was particularly nice, but it was pretty snazzy on the inside. I don’t know design lingo, but it was very Scandinavian design, with modern clean lines and wooden gratings separating different areas. They also had real cushions on the booths and nice plastic chairs instead of the tiny swivel-y ones found at most American fast food restaurants. Of course, the food still tasted and looked about the same as any other McDonald’s but the atmosphere was certainly more pleasant.

When we got home I made a point of hanging out in the living room for a little while since I’d been in my room most of the day. I brought out my reading for Applied Psychology, but we ended up watching a Danish comedy awards show that was pretty funny. Of course, I didn’t understand most of what was going on, but there was some physical humor that I could understand, and once Charlotte got home she explained the gist of some of the jokes to me as well. The biggest thing that struck me was how much more open Danes are about sexual/body humor. There was nudity and penis jokes, and one act about falling in love where the comedians were wearing spandex suits and actually got pretty sexual onstage. It was all really funny, but those things would never be allowed uncensored on non-cable TV at 9pm in the U.S. It’s interesting to think about the different values here and in the U.S. Here they are much more liberal about alcohol and sexuality, but much stricter about violence, where as in the U.S. it is the opposite. Of course, both systems have their issues, but the Danes do seem to be doing some things right.

And once again I am up late despite being sleepy much earlier. I am tempted to make some sort of cheesy cognitive behavioral therapy joke here. TOO MUCH PSYCHOLOGY. Clearly it is time to say GODNAT. :)

Party At Fakta: My Short Study Tour!

11 Sep

Last night I returned from my short study tour to Western Denmark, and it was AWESOME. I ate a TON of food and enjoyed myself quite thoroughly. There’s lots to tell, so if you’re planning to read this whole post, you’d better snuggle in and grab a snack because this is gonna be a long one. For that reason I will also divide it conveniently into three parts to give you some safe stopping places. :)

Thursday:

Thursday morning I awoke bright and early, determined not to forget any important items or to be left behind by the bus. I double-checked my bag approximately five bajillion times (I counted) and added a couple last minute items before it was finally time to go. I had an awkwardly large duffle bag with my little DIS backpack since my only other options were two backpacks or a rolling suitcase (not a good choice on cobblestones). I squeezed my way out the door and successfully onto the bus at 7:36 am. On the train, I sat a few seats down from Colin, a boy in my class who lives in the folkehojskole (another DIS living option) in Hillerød. I slept a little bit but I woke up earlier than usual because I was determined not to miss my stop, even though at this point we were scheduled to be about 30 min. early for the tour bus. As we approached Nørreport station I noticed Colin was still fast asleep. At first I assumed that he would wake up when the conductor announced our stop, but we arrived and he showed no signs of stirring. The trains do not stay long at one station, and if you miss the two minute window, you are stuck on the train until the next stop. So I knew I had to try to wake Colin, so he wouldn’t miss the bus. First I tried calling his name, but I didn’t want to shout and be rude to the Danish passengers. He didn’t budge. So I grabbed my huge bag and went over to him and shook his shoulder, which finally woke him up. It wasn’t easy though, so I think if I hadn’t woken him up he might’ve slept for another hour on the train. Time was running out to get off the train, and the door nearest Colin had a no exit sign, so I had to turn around and go through the bike compartment. As I reached the doors they were already closing, so I think I barely made it out on time. I started walking towards the stairs out of the platform and I saw Colin standing at the no exit doors trying to open them. Of course, they didn’t open. I’ll never forget the look on his face as the train started pulling away. Luckily we were still super early so he was able to get off at the next stop and catch a train back, and he even still arrived early for the bus.

As we climbed on the bus we FINALLY got our schedule for the trip. Before we’d only been given a vague idea of the itinerary, to the point where it was a bit absurd. My host family had asked me where we were going, and I could only give them a guess answer. Our schedule booklets had a full itinerary, maps for our “time on own,” pictures of everyone on the trip, and a few sudoku puzzles in the back. The bus was a double decker, and apparently brand new (the bus driver had only gotten it 14 days before the trip). We were only supposed to sit on the top level, since the bottom mostly had a table and the bathroom. Ansley, Allie, Jenna, and I sat together towards the middle of the bus and settled in for our 3 hour drive to the island of Funen (home of Hans Christian Andersen), where we would have our first academic visit. Our tour leaders Julie and Tilde (our teacher Gitte couldn’t make it) were super nice, and they gave us fruit and candies on the way. When it was determined that everyone was hungry, we also got to stop at a gas station to buy snacks. Everyone was super excited at first because we were curious what a Danish gas station would be like, but then the excitement died a bit when we just stopped at a Shell. It was still nicer than U.S. gas stations, though, and they sold hot dogs and pastries in addition to the usual array of candy, chips, and soda. I didn’t want to spend too much money, so I just chose a candy bar that looked tasty. It was called a Yankie, and it was actually perfect–caramel with chocolate/malt nougat, kind of like a Milky Way, only way better.

Our first academic visit was with Kaare Christensen, a professor at the University of Southern Denmark. You may have heard of him from his recent appearance on 60 Minutes. He wrote a brief article about possible reasons for Denmark’s consistent #1 spot in the happiest countries ratings. His conclusion was basically that Danes have low expectations so they are not surprised when things go badly, and they are pleased when life turns out better than they expected. The article and the interview are pretty tongue-in-cheek and I recommend checking them out. He also talked to us about his research on aging, which was very interesting. He discussed a few studies about the relationship between health and happiness, including one about perceived age, where health and life satisfaction were compared with how old the participants looked rather than how old they actually were. It gave us a lot to think about, and it was a nice way to begin the trip.

We next headed off to Odense, the 3rd largest city in Denmark, also located on Funen. Since we were running a bit late we only had about half an hour to grab our own lunch (we chose shawarma–cheap and delicious). We all met up at the Brandts Klædefabrik art museum, where we got all-exhibit passes and got to roam around on our own. It was just a tourist visit for our class, though we saw other DIS groups there who had an academic visit there. The Communications and Mass Media group even got to produce their own newscast in what I guess was the “media” exhibit of the museum. The first exhibit we saw was a photography show by Jacob Holdt. I did not read all of the placards, nor did we have a tour guide, but from what I gathered he was a Danish photographer who had gone to the U.S. in the sixties to take photographs of poor people. It was a pretty intense exhibit because it basically paired photos of African Americans with those of white supremacists, including members of the KKK. There were couples, families, and individuals in all kinds of situations, but most of the subjects of the photos fell into one of those two categories. Some of the captions said things like “____, a mass murderer, shows his daughter ____ how to use a gun.” (The names weren’t blanked out I just don’t remember them.) The KKK photos were especially hard for me personally. There were photos of people dressed in KKK uniforms just eating a family dinner. It kind of emphasized how all these people are just everyday people, and in many other ways they seem just the same. I’m glad we went to see it, but those photos just took me unawares. Luckily the rest of the exhibits were not nearly as emotionally charged, and so after that room it was much more relaxing. My second favorite (after the photography) was a dark room filled with fake lit-up flowers in swirly patterns around the room. The flowers made a crackling sound that almost sounded like crickets if you didn’t listen too hard, and the whole room was very peaceful. In the rest of the museum there were some other photography exhibits, the media room which had its own printing press in addition to the news studio, and some fun cloth sculptures (pictures forthcoming).

After the museum we had another two and a half hours on the bus before arriving at our hotel in Århus, the 2nd largest Danish city. On the way Julie and Tilde showed us a Danish film, Italian for Beginners, but I think most people slept instead of watching. We also got to sign up for our hostel rooms, so Allie, Ansley, Jenna, and I got a room together. Our hostel was in the middle of the woods, but it was pretty cute. We got a few minutes to settle into our room and set up our beds (we had to bring our own sheets) before heading out for dinner again. Our room was actually really nice, with two bunk beds, a little chair and table, a tv, and our own bathroom with a shower and everything. I think a lot of us were picturing a huge room with several bunk beds and a communal bathroom, so we were pretty excited to have such nice accommodations. For dinner, we all piled back on the bus again to drive into town. We ate at a super nice restaurant (which was extra special because restaurants are so expensive in Denmark). We were served a DELICIOUS salmon with creamed spinach and lemon wedges. It was super yummy, even though we didn’t get dessert.

We had to find our own way back to the hostel after dinner, so the four of us decided to go exploring around Århus a bit. We went the opposite direction from the rest of our class, found a quiet little pub where we had some drinks and chatted for a while. There were some Danes sitting at the table next to us, and after a bit they introduced themselves. Apparently they had been wondering if we were from Spain, which was quite the compliment since we were all very much American. It was a really fun evening, but we were tired from traveling all day so we left earlyish to determine how to get home. We first made a valiant effort to determine how to use the bus, but it was difficult to figure out in a strange city, and eventually we just decided to go with the cab that was sitting conveniently nearby. It ended up being pretty cheap since we weren’t too far from our hostel and we split the fare between the four of us. When we got back to our room, we figured out the tv (surprisingly tricky) and found a funny french movie to watch for a bit before we all dropped off to sleep one by one.

Friday:

Friday morning we had breakfast at the hostel, which was basically a typical Danish breakfast buffet. I had several pieces of bread with different combinations of butter, jam, and cheese. The cheese slicer was awesome–there were two blocks of cheese on a round platform with a handle attached to a slicer. When you turned the handle, it sliced the cheese and the whole thing moved down so you could slice a new layer of cheese. Basically the best thing ever, especially because I’m so bad at using Danish home cheese slicers.

Our first academic visit for the day was to KAOSpilots, an alternative entrepreneur school that emphasizes team-based education, real world testing, and process learning. It was a really cool program and it almost made me a little jealous of the students. It’s a three year education, kind of like a “bachelor’s degree” but you don’t get a diploma as such. You have to be 21-35 years old to apply, so that everyone has a certain level of maturity. The application does not require test scores or grades, but rather answers to questions about your personality, interests, and motivations. Instead of having a bland presentation with a powerpoint, we got to engage in a couple of exercises to demonstrate how their education works. First we did a dream journey, where we had to relax and close our eyes and visualize ourselves in the future. It didn’t exactly work for me because I got distracted by an inconsistency in the “story” we were being told, but it was relaxing. My favorite part of the presentation, and perhaps the whole trip, was the next exercise we did. First we had a minute and a half to write down seven things we were passionate about. Then we shared them as a group. We repeated it with things that make us angry and things that we’re good at. The angers were especially good to share because at first we were all stepping over each other shouting them out, but the presenter, Sarah, stopped us and told us to listen to each other. After that only one person spoke at a time, even though there was no raising of hands, and each anger shared was felt by the group. It was a really cool bonding experience. After making our lists, we were told to get into groups of three people with others we don’t know well, and to find themes for each list. This was really interesting because a lot of the things people wrote down were super random, like being good at making pancakes, or hating socks that fall down. But when you sat down with someone’s list and thought about it, it was really possible to come up with meaningful themes that described their list. The final step was to write down our themes in the form of a statement: “My wish is to use my passion for [passion theme] and my talent for [talent theme] to [verb] [anger theme].” The exercise felt not only really cathartic, but also productive because it was about using the themes to combat what makes us angry. Everyone came out of the presentation feeling good and with new energy for the day ahead.

Our next stop was group lunch in town at another really nice restaurant. We had pesto pasta with veggies and salad on top. Super delicious, and I cleaned my plate. It was nice to get some more veggies too because Danes are not always big on those. After lunch we got time on our own to explore Århus, so Ansley, Allie, Jenna, and I went to Den Gamle By, or The Old City. One of the other options was the ARoS art museum, which is supposed to be awesome, but we had just gone to an art museum the day before and we wanted to spend some time outside. We took a rather roundabout way getting there, which was okay because it was a gorgeous day. It has three sections–the 1800′s, 1927, and 1974. The 1800′s part is the biggest, as I think they are still building the 1927 and 1974 areas. The whole thing was really adorable, and it was nice to have some time to relax and just walk around. Dessert was on our minds basically the whole trip, so of course we found the bakery to get pastries. I got three vanilla almond cookies for only 10 kr. and they were scrumptious. Though it was only a small part, I really enjoyed the 1970′s part of the “city.” There was a poster museum which had retro Danish posters, some of which were pretty funny. There was also a music store with old tvs and record players, records, and cassette tapes. Once we’d seen everything we had some extra time so we slowly wandered back to KAOSpilot, where we were supposed to be meeting the bus. We stopped at Netto to get some snacks for the bus (I got a giant bag of banana chips) and then sat in a large square near the church and the theater to relax and munch on our food for a while.

There was only a short bus ride to our last academic visit at Camp True North, a summer camp for teens designed to raise their positivity and self-esteem. From the moment we got there it felt like returning to camp. The presenters were just as overly smiley and enthusiastic as you’d expect, and they had us do all the little claps and sayings that they have campers do. At first I was skeptical, but then they had us stand up and go around to ten different people and tell them “You look FANTASTIC today.” It was very silly, but after doing it a few times everyone was laughing and it was actually fun. After an introductory story about the need for positivity, we went to the back of the room to play Gopher. We stood in a circle and each person had a “trap” hand and a “gopher” hand. Traps were laid out flat and gophers were one finger placed in the “trap” next to you. When the “gopher caller” said “gopher,” you had to try to trap a gopher while get your own gopher to escape. I was pretty bad at the game because I just got so surprised every time that I just threw up both my arms, so my gopher escaped but I never caught another gopher. After each round, everybody who was successful did their “gopher dance” which was basically any dance you wanted. It was really silly, and I’m not sure what academic value it had, but it was a lot of fun.

After playing Gopher, we had to do a Maze activity. For this one, we were divided into two teams and each team made a grid on the floor with masking tape. The point was to find your way through the “maze” without getting beeped or buzzed by the Maze Master, who had the key to what spaces were “safe” and not. Every time you stepped on a wrong square, you got “beeped” and had to return to the beginning, and each time you didn’t follow the rules, like going back the way you came, you got “buzzed”, and your team lost a minute on your time. Most importantly, you couldn’t talk at all during the game. Our team worked together really well, and soon we fell into a system for finding our way through the maze. I thought it was really fun, because it felt really collaborative to be working with our class to solve the puzzle. When our team finished by getting everyone through the maze, the other team still hadn’t found their way through it. I’m sure it didn’t help that once we’d finished, our team sat down to watch their team struggle to the end. Their team was not working together nearly as well, and they all looked visibly frustrated. After both teams completed the maze, we got a sort of weird concluding talk about how every day should be a job interview, and the facilitator said she knew what ten people she would hire after that activity.

A lot of people left the visit complaining about the maze and the campy feel of the presentation. I personally really enjoyed myself, and it was a little frustrating to have to listen to others complain so much. My main problem with it was the fact that we didn’t get an explanation of the methods of the camp or any academic discussion of the benefits for the kids who attend. I liked the team-bonding-ness of the maze activity though, and the gopher game was fun too. On the bus to our hostel, Julie and Tilde played Little Miss Sunshine for us, which was fun because it was so familiar (and also just an excellent movie). When we arrived it was already dark at the hostel so we all went off to check out our rooms and set up our beds. This time we had rooms of six, so our group of four from the day before was joined by Randy and April. We were in a cabin with two bedrooms, a loft with two more beds, a kitchenette, and a bathroom. It was nice and spacious, and cozy in a different way than the previous hostel. Ansley and I took the loft, which was super adorable, though the ladder up to it was awkward and bringing our stuff up and down was a definite struggle bus. The kitchenette was also super cute, and it was stocked with plates, pots, and even a hot water heater, so we were disappointed that we had no food to make. Instead, dinner consisted of chicken sandwiches and soda at the hostel dining room, which was also pretty tasty, if not as exciting as our other meals. After dinner we hung out in the lounge with some other people for a while. There were two other DIS classes there that night (one Psychology and one European Politics and Society) so a group of people went “out,” but it was such a small town that we didn’t want to participate in a DIS invasion. Jenna I played a game of Go Fish with the other people in the lounge and someone even found a guestbook from the 60′s. It was pretty cool to hear about other people travelling through the same hostel fifty (wow that’s weird to say) years ago, enjoying their own European discoveries. After one round of Go Fish, I was pretty tired, so I headed off to the cabin to join Ansley and Allie who were already there. We had a nice little chat up in the loft before we all went off to sleep.

Saturday:

Saturday morning, I was a little sad that our trip was ending, but also pretty tired and ready to be home. It was weird to be going “home” but not HOME, and it didn’t help that everyone was moving in at Carleton that day. Breakfast at the hostel was perhaps even more yummy than the last one. They not only had all the same bread/jam/cheese, but also chocolate slices to put on your bread with butter. Allie had been telling me about them because her host family has them a lot, so I was quite excited to try. Sure enough, it was just as delicious as it sounds. I also had a bowl of raw oats (what Danes have instead of cereal) with yogurt for good measure. I was absolutely stuffed and could not have eaten another bite, which is saying a lot for me.

That morning our final stop was in Jelling to see the Jelling stones, some runestones carved in the late 900′s (the Viking era) by Harold Bluetooth (namesake of Bluetooth technology) and his father Gorm the Old. We first got a guided “tour” of the museum (there was only about one room) and our guide got pretty into it and acted out some pieces, so it was more entertaining than ancient history usually is for me. We also learned about the horrible things the Vikings did to their slaves, like cutting off the tip of their nose and purposefully infecting the wound with gangrene to mark slaves as different from regular people. Pretty gross and awful. Then we had a few minutes to check out the real Jelling stones outside, and climb one of the “mounds” built to mark/frame the spot. We had to hurry off to lunch because we were already running pretty late, and Julie and Tilde told us we’d only have about half an hour to get our food and eat once we reached the restaurant.

Our final lunch was a traditional danish buffet, with bread, meats, salmon, shrimp, hard-boiled eggs, sausage, cheese, and a few veggies stuck in here and there. I grabbed almost everything even though I’d had a huge breakfast. Something about being on “vacation” during this trip made me feel like I could eat anything and everything. Again I stuffed myself to bursting, but it was delicious and I regretted nothing. Back on the bus for our final 3 hour leg, Julie and Tilde played a Danish movie they’d warned us about the first day. I didn’t watch it because I was too busy doing Sudoku, reading Harry Potter, and sleeping, but I heard that basically everything bad that could happen did happen in that movie. When we were approaching Copenhagen, Julie and Tilde surprised us by bringing out cupcakes they’d gotten for Dylan’s birthday, which had been the day before. It was a nice way to round out the trip while we filled out our study tour evaluations and prepared ourselves for arrival back in Copenhagen.

In the final goodbyes and walking to the train station, vague plans were made for Tivoli, dinners, and fun things ahead. Søren was nice enough to pick me up from the train station because the bus wasn’t coming for another hour. Lots more has happened since I arrived home, but that is a topic for another post. This study tour was more fun than I ever thought it would be, and I learned and experienced more than I expected to. I am now eagerly awaiting our week-long tour to MILAN of all places, which will no doubt be even more exciting and exhausting. The rest of the weekend has been quite excellent, and a post about that is coming soon.

Final note: I was chosen to be a DIS blogger! That means that MY BLOG will be posted on the DIS website with my photo and everything. I submitted my blog on a whim, never expecting to actually make it. Now I will have to step up my writing game, and continue to be diligent about updates. And I’ll actually have readers! (Not that I don’t count you, lovely family of mine and Allie. :P ) Thursday all the bloggers will meet and get our pictures taken, and get advice about blog stuff. I’m excited! :)

Fish and Chips

7 Sep

Last post before my short study tour! It’s hard to believe this semester is going by so quickly. In just three more weeks we will be headed off on our long tour to Milan. It’s very exciting but at the same time I’m starting to worry that I won’t get to see and do everything on my (yet-to-be-made) list. Everyone is already finalizing plans for our two week travel break at the end of October, and the rest of the semester is already coming into focus. Not to mention Carleton New Student Week is happening across the Atlantic. Before I get too far ahead of myself, though, I should fill you in on the happenings of this week so far.

Monday was a relaxed but long day since my first class wasn’t until 11:40 but I had Applied Psych in the evening until 7pm. Normally on my late mornings Charlotte and I have a nice breakfast together, but she was at work so I had a quiet morning with my cornflakes. My first class was Danish, which is beginning to get a little more challenging. The first few classes we were just going over basic phrases like “What is your name?” and “Where do you live?” but now we are getting into grammar and more complex vocabulary, and it’s a bit intimidating. Being the easily excitable nerd that I am, I practiced some Danish last spring, so I was familiar with basic questions as well as numbers up to 20, so I didn’t have to practice those things very much. Now that we’re moving beyond those early bits, though, I’m realizing that I will actually have to practice and study if I’m going to do this whole “learning Danish” thing. Apparently I’m not doing too badly, though, because we had a numbers competition, testing our knowledge of numbers 0-100, and I was one of the four winners. Unfortunately our prize was licorice candy, which seems to be an acquired taste, because I couldn’t handle it, and neither could most of my class, but the Danes love it.

After class I went to the library to find a movie I was supposed to watch for my Adolescence in Northern Europe class. The DIS library is pretty small (about the size of my elementary school library, plus some computers and a lounge study area) but it does have some great film rooms. To get a film, you just have to give someone in the office your student ID card, then you can go through a door and across a hall to the film rooms. There are two–one that’s bigger, and more like a small theater, and a small one with just a couch, some chairs, and a big flat screen TV. I chose the smaller one since  I was by myself, popped in the movie, and curled up on the couch to watch it. Overall a very pleasant viewing experience. The movie was called Råzone, and it’s about some Danish teenagers who get out of control and things turn out badly. It was pretty much like American films of the same genre, but luckily not as intense as I expected from the warning our teacher gave us beforehand. It was a nice way to spend a Monday afternoon, and I sort of wished I’d had popcorn to munch on. That evening, Applied Psych class was actually pretty fun. Our teacher is pretty eccentric, and she gets really into what she’s saying, which is good for a class so late in the day. We were discussing narrative therapy, and we even got to try it out by doing roleplays in groups, with one client, one therapist, and one observer. I was the client, the one thing I didn’t want to be, but it was actually pretty relaxing just telling someone about my life and having them listen to me. Between that class and my positive psych class, I’m getting pretty used to  this feelings-validation thing.

When I got home, my host parents had leftovers from dinner waiting for me. Charlotte described it pretty accurately as “Asian food made Danish” since there was meatballs with curry and rice. Curry = Asian. Meatballs = very Danish, not Asian. Despite its incongruousness, it was actually quite yummy, and it felt very hyggeligt to be sitting on the couch with my family while they watched the Danish version of Survivor and I ate my dinner. I definitely do not regret doing the host family option. The more I hear about other living situations, I am so glad I get to come home to a cozy family waiting to hear about my day over dinner.

Tuesday was pretty bland, just classes as usual. Every early class day I am struggling more and more to pull myself out of bed. As glad as I am to have a routine and feel comfortable in my environment, I kind of miss the days when jetlag, excitement, and nervousness made lack of sleep a secondary concern. I’m getting really good at sleeping on my morning train, and sometimes on the afternoon one too. :P Those naps help a little bit, but I should probably just start going to bed earlier…

Tuesday night I also went to a BLUS (basically an LGBTQ student organization in Copenhagen) event that I’d been invited to by Adda and Anthony from my buddy network. Originally Jenn was supposed to come with me, but about five minutes after my train left Hillerød I got a call from her saying she wasn’t going to make it. She’d realized she forgot her transportation pass and had luckily gotten off the train before it became a problem. You can get on the train without a ticket but if you get caught when they do their occasional inspections you have to pay a large fine. So basically she was stuck somewhere between her house and Copenhagen, and she’d bought a ticket back home but she lives beyond the S-tog area so she has to take the regional trains, which come much less often. Anyway, I was left to ride my train with the prospect of going to an event alone where there would be more Danes than DIS students. Obviously, it turned out fine and I ran into some other DIS people there and it was pretty fun. BLUS has a bunch of events planned for the semester, mostly on Tuesdays, that I may go to although probably not too many because I don’t like missing dinner at home. It was a fun way to hang out with a mixed group of people, however, and I ended up riding part of the train home with a Spanish guy we met who was pretty nice.

This morning I had my second field study, this time for my Positive Psych class. We met at DIS in the morning then walked to Parliament, at Christiansborg Palace (yes,the Danish Parliament is in a castle) where we met with Peter Juels Jensen, the education spokesman for the Liberal Party. I was expecting it to be a somewhat formal and serious event, but he was actually pretty funny and had some very interesting things to say about Danish happiness, the education system, and other political issues. We also got a great tour of Parliament, including some fancy meeting rooms, Peter’s office, and of course the room where all the action happens. Other than the fact that it was a castle, it seemed a lot like our American government buildings, except with much older decorations, more eccentric paintings, and a lot less security.

On the way back to the train station, I was absolutely starving, so I stopped for my first Danish hot dog, or pølser. There are stands all over Copenhagen, and they come in several different varieties, so I just went for the most basic since it was my first time. This one didn’t come with a bun, but it was a long (bright) red sausage with delicious mustard and ketchup on the side. The stands had been tempting me for a while, so I was excited to have an excuse to finally try one. Just as I suspected, it was super yummy, and now I’m really excited to try some different varieties with more toppings. I’d been planning to walk with it to the train station, but as soon as I got my food it started pouring out of nowhere. So I ended up eating my fast food like the Danes do, standing by the cart under the overhang to avoid getting soaked.

After my snack I had to hurry to the train station because today I had to register with my local kommune (municipality) to get my Danish CPR card so I can live here non-illegally and get benefits like free Danish healthcare. Charlotte was nice enough to pick me up from the train station and take me to the kommune because it’s way out on one side of town, and somewhat difficult to get to if you don’t have a car and don’t know the way (i.e. if you’re me). Registration was actually very easy, and quite different from my experiences at American DMVs. We had to take a number, but there were very few people there, so we only waited about a minute. At the desk next to us, a little girl was getting her first passport which was super adorable because you could see how excited she was to sign her own name for her own official passport. On the way home, we also stopped at Føtex, which is a bit like Fred Meyer or Target, only Danish so much much smaller. It’s fun for me to go to Danish grocery stores, especially because I’m not buying my own food or anything. I am always immediately tempted by all the candies and chocolates because for some reason foreign candy always seems that much more delicious. Plus kinder chocolate is just great. Luckily the high prices always keep me from even touching any of it. I think I’ll be in trouble as soon as I visit a country with even slightly cheaper prices.

Tonight I was able to hang out with my host family a little more since I don’t have any homework due until next week after my study tour. Charlotte and I might make cupcakes together sometime, because she has a cupcake cookbook but Danes don’t really have cupcakes, only muffins. As someone who loves cupcakes (pretty obvious given my recent blog theme change) I’m very excited to make them from scratch. Maybe I’ll even show them cupcake cones, though that might be too much to handle. At dinner we discussed Christmas traditions, which is getting me really excited for Christmas even though it is still a few months away. Since they don’t have Thanksgiving in Denmark, Christmas spirit starts in full swing in November, so it won’t be too long. I told them about eggnog, and I think the girls thought it was a pretty strange idea, but maybe I’ll make some for them this winter. After dinner, Cille, Nanna, and I took Maggie for her walk, which was really nice because we never really get a chance to chat just the three of us. Then we all played a family game, Ludo (kind of like Sorry or Trouble), and had some delicious apple streusel muffins Charlotte made. The game was very competitive, but it went on for a long while, so eventually we called it quits, and we each claimed to be the winner. It was one of the most hyggeligt nights I’ve had so far and it was a great last night before my first overnight trip.

[Pictures of above events coming soon!]

(About the title of this post: during the game Cille was swearing a lot and getting very angry when she would lose, and her parents were not too happy about it, so they asked me about nice ways to swear in English. I mentioned “gosh darn,” “fudge,” and “fiddlesticks,” which got transformed to “fish and chips” as they were all trying to pronounce it. One of those had to be there moments, but it was pretty hilarious.)

Winning

3 Sep

Yesterday was another long day. I had class first thing in the morning, at 8:30am, and of course I napped on my morning train ride. The first week I was here, the train was so exciting I wanted to spend the whole time looking around, but now I fall asleep almost every time.  After our morning class, Allie and I wandered over to the Black Diamond and sat outside in the beautiful sunshine.

sunny day outside black diamond

The week had been pretty rainy and gray, so it was nice to know that summertime isn’t quite over. After Allie left for her second morning class, I sat around for a little longer then took the scenic route back to DIS. On the way as I was walking past the canals, suddenly a band was playing out of nowhere, but I looked around and didn’t see a parade or anything. It turns out there was a boat passing by with a small ensemble playing on it, and it seemed like yet another sign of a wonderful Friday. My afternoon classes were pretty normal–we’ve gotten past the basic introductions now, and are moving on to more serious material, so I got my first real essay assignment… whoopee (not). After classes I checked my email in the library to waste some time, before heading to the metro station to go to my first Danish buddy network event.

As one of the possible immersion programs, DIS does a buddy program where you can be matched up with a Danish buddy, usually a university student, to get to know. I think they used to do one-to-one match-ups, but apparently students found that somewhat awkward, so this year they are doing a network system, where there are 10 Danish buddies and 20 American students. Each network gets a budget to be spent doing fun events together, so many of the networks did their first event this week. My network’s event was a dinner in Christiania, a sort of hippie-ish independent city within Copenhagen known for their “green light district” where people are selling and smoking pot out in the open. The police have been cracking down on the drug usage in Christiania recently though, so we have received many warnings not to partake in the available activities there. Christiania is also known for their funky houses and general atmosphere, so it’s a required stop for tourists in Copenhagen. For our dinner, we were meeting in the Christianshavn metro station, which was not difficult to find, only about 2 stops down from Nørreport, the station close to DIS. I got there pretty early so I sat for a bit then wandered back through the metro station looking for the group. I started to get a bit worried because I didn’t see a large gathering of Danish or DIS students, but then I saw a guy with a backpack (definite DIS student marker) who asked if I was from DIS. Together we ran into another student, and then we spotted a couple of Danish people across the square that had been standing there for a while. When we all met up, we found out we’d all been standing around for the past 10 min., not recognizing each other as part of the group. It was pretty silly, but I was mostly glad to have found the group successfully.

We waited around for several more minutes for other students to show up, but only about 5 DIS students from our network showed up. There was also a group of DIS students from DIS housing (sort of like dorms) who knew the “Danish buddy” organizing the event and were invited to come along. When it became clear that nobody else was coming, we started walking together over to Christiania. Unfortunately, you’re not allowed to take pictures in Christiania because the residents don’t want to be caught on film doing their illicit activities so I have no pictures to show you, but it was a very cool place. We only walked straight to our destination, so we didn’t do a lot of exploring, but there were lots of painted murals everywhere and booths and we passed the sign for the “green light district” as well. On the way to the place where we were having dinner, we also passed a giant plastic jellyfish sculpture just hanging outside. I’m returning to Christiania for my Danish class later this month, so I’m really excited to explore it further.

The place where we had dinner was basically called “Gay House” in Danish (Bøssehuset I think?). It’s a venue for drag and other gay events, and groups can also rent it out for the night. When we got there they gave us some free drinks with blueberries that were quite good and we all stood around chatting for a bit. After a while we sat down at tables, with at least one Danish buddy per table, and waited for dinner to be ready. Everyone seemed really nice, especially the Danish buddies. The one at my table was Adda, who was actually Icelandic but she’d been living in Denmark for the past seven years. There were a couple of other non-Danish Danish buddies too–one from Portugal and one from South Africa, but all of them had been living in Copenhagen for several years. They were all very funny and friendly, and very interested in getting to know us. The conversation was actually much more academic than any I had had since being here, since they were all university students as well. It was nice to talk about something other than where I was living in Denmark and what classes I was taking.

For dinner we had food prepared especially for us by a chef guy who Anthony, the Danish buddy organizing the event, knew. We had pesto salad with grilled tomatoes, flødekartofler (basically potatoes baked with cream–very Danish), beef, and two kinds of bread. Everything was very delicious, and I ate until I was quite full. After dinner, we were divided up into teams for a quiz competition. Each team had to have a mascot, who got dressed up in the various crazy drag costumes in the back room. My team was the Swinger’s Club and our mascot, Michael, was wearing a ridiculous jellyfish tentacles thingy around his neck and an afro wig. The quiz was really fun and our team did pretty well. We only got second place, though, so we did not win the bucket of candy. All the DIS students ended up leaving after the quiz was over, which we felt a little bad about, but everyone had various morning excursions to attend and nobody wanted to try to find their way back to the train station alone in the dark. Overall it was a super fun night, and I got to hang out with some people I never would have met otherwise. Hopefully our network will have another event soon. :)

This morning I had to get up earlyish to get to Copenhagen by 10am to catch the bus to Helsingør (Elsinore in English)! My travel today was actually very silly because Helsingør is actually north of Hillerød, so I went 40 min. south only to go 1 hr. north, and on the way home I went 1 hr. south back to Copenhagen then 40 min. north again to get home. Lots of wasted time, but definitely worth it. I met up with Jenn at Frue Plads where we were meeting our bus, and we had a lovely bus ride along the coast up to Helsingør. Along the way were some very nice waterfront houses that were huge by Danish standards. Probably hugely expensive. When we finally got there, we got about an hour and a half to explore on our own before we had to meet up for our tour of Kronborg, Hamlet’s castle. Jenn and I wandered around the adorable streets of Helsingør, just looking around. There was some kind of children’s fair going on, and so there were a lot of kids in fluorescent yellow vests and there was a giant giraffe bouncy castle in one of the squares.

streets in elsinore

giraffe bouncy castle

After seeing the town, we went to find the ice cream place that Allie had recommended to me after she went to Helsingør last weekend. It was called Brostraede Is, and it was quite delicious. I definitely recommend it to anyone going to Helsingør. I got caramel ice cream with fresh whipped cream (a common thing in Denmark, I think) and a bit of real strawberry sauce on top. The caramel and strawberry didn’t clash as much as I expected, and the whole thing was super yummy. The waffle cone was also really good–thinner than American ones and more sugary/crispy.

super excited for my ice cream

It was another sunny day, so we sat outside and ate our ice cream, and then had our lunches. My packed sandwich and apple were yummy, but a bit underwhelming after having ice cream (maybe that’s why you don’t have dessert first?) but my host mom had given me some candy too so I had a second dessert to round out the meal. :P By the time we finished lunch, it was time to head back to the group meeting place to get our castle tour. I was pretty convinced that Jenn and I had “won” this part of the day, since we found the public restroom right away (the thing everyone was looking for as soon as we got off the bus) and got delicious ice cream. Of course, nobody else recognized our clear victory, but pride of winning was enough of a reward.

For the tour, we had to get divided into smaller groups, which was done by calling out all our names individually and sorting us by last name. Definitely not the most efficient process (Kendall, you would not have been able to handle it), especially considering everyone was just going to go with their friends anyway. When we finally got going though, the tour was really interesting. It was nice to get some more history and explanations of the appearance of the castle, unlike when I went to Frederiksborg and couldn’t even read the signs in Danish. Apparently when opening Kronborg to the public, they decided not to put in fake restored items, so most of the walls were bare but all the items there were original, about four hundred years old.

cool ceiling (my favorite :P )

We also got to go down in the old dungeons, where they performed tortures long ago. There is also Holger Danske, a statue of a famous Danish Viking hero who is supposedly sleeping until Denmark is in grave danger, when he will awake and defend it. His legend is very famous and all Danish children know about him.

Holger Danske

gorgeous view out of Kronborg

It was a long tour, and by the end we were all pretty exhausted, especially because our group finished up with the dungeons, which were very dark and a bit scary to navigate. The floors were super bumpy rocks and the ceilings were low, so you felt like you were going to trip at any moment. As interesting as they were, it was a bit of a relief to walk out of the dungeons and into the sunshine. After the tour, we took the bus all the way back to Copenhagen, when I caught a train all the way back up to Hillerød. It was a lot more travel than necessary, but Jenn and I chatted on the bus ride and it was quite pleasant. On my train, I obviously fell asleep yet again, since I was pretty tired from walking all day.

After dinner tonight we (it was just me and my host parents because Nanna was at work and Cille was at a friend’s house) took Maggie for a walk as usual, but we stopped by Søren’s aunt and uncle’s house for tea. They were just as friendly as the rest of the family has been, and their English was pretty good (I think Søren’s aunt studied in England when she was younger). Søren’s uncle was very funny, just like the old men you see in the movies, who are allowed to be inappropriate because of their age. It’s funny to be able to meet so many members of the family; I’m not used to having everybody live so close together. Of course, in Denmark, 30 minutes is a pretty far distance, and if you live 3 hours away, it’s good to see you a few times a year. Tomorrow I will meet even more family members because there is a women’s race, that I agreed to participate in my first day here, that practically all the women in the family are participating in. The distance is about 5 km., or 3 miles, but Charlotte assures me that she will be mostly walking too, so I’m hoping it will be relatively low key.

I’m really starting to get used to living here, and it’s almost weird to think about going back to the U.S., and to Carleton especially. Since Carleton New Student Week is starting soon, I’m getting emails from the GSC and such about various preparations, and it’s hard to believe that all that is still happening across the ocean, even though I’m not there. At the same time, it also seems odd that I’m going to be here for so much longer. I feel like I’ve been here a while, but I still have 3 and a half months to go. I’m sure it will speed by though–as I begin to make plans for travel and exploring, those 3 months are beginning to seem shorter and shorter. Only two weeks ago I arrived here exhausted and unsure of what would happen, and now I have an established routine–I’ve regained my anti-morning feelings, I fall asleep on the train, and I can find my classes without checking my schedule. So much has happened already–I can’t imagine how anything more could possibly happen to one person in such a short span of time.

Must go to bed soon and prepare for my race tomorrow. ;) Nighty night.

(Also, Facebook pictures are now up for those visual learners out there. :P )

American Chickens

1 Sep

Yesterday was another one of those rollercoaster-of-feelings days. In the morning, I woke up at 5:50am, an unacceptable and non-existent time of day, so I could catch the bus at 6:56 and make it to DIS by 8am for my first field study. I was both excited and nervous about the day, because not only did I have my first field study, but that night I was going to dinner with my Danish class as well as my host sisters. Unfortunately, the train seemed to go pretty slow that morning (maybe it’s just me, but the trains definitely seem to have different speeds depending on the day) and I did not have nearly as much time as I’d hoped by the time it arrived at Nørreport Station. To make matters worse, I was starting to develop some pretty bad cramps, and because I’d been cutting it close that morning, I’d had no time to search for ibuprofen in the house. It was about 7:50 when I got off the train, so I had to speed walk to make it to DIS on time. I was really worried because my teacher had said the day before that she was definitely leaving at 8:05, and you could hear in her voice that she wasn’t going to wait around to make sure everybody had made it. Luckily, I made it on time, but the rushed walking had not improved my cramps at all, and I was starting to feel a bit sick. Lacey, a girl in my class, was nice enough to give me a painkiller, but it took a while to kick in, and before I knew it the group was moving along at a brisk pace.

The walk was probably one of the longest of my life. It can’t have been more than 15-20 min., but I only felt worse as we went along, and soon I was pretty sure I was going to faint, then throw up, in that order. I didn’t though, obviously, and eventually we made it to the efterskole, which is like a one-year boarding school that Danish kids can attend for the equivalent of their 10th grade year (though the students are around ages 15-18). I was hoping to be able to sit down for a second when we got there, but we were immediately whisked away on a tour of the school. It was frustrating to be feeling sick, because the school was so cool, and I was really curious to hear about it. After a little while, I finally just snuck away from the tour for a second to deal. Then I couldn’t hear or find the group though, so I went back to the room where we started, where I actually found everyone sitting down and having tea. This is where my day got much better. By this time the painkillers had started to kick in a bit more, and sitting down helped a lot. The tea also made me feel much better, and I was able to enjoy the discussion that we had with one of the teachers at the school.

The efterskole we were visiting was an arts focused one, so the students took videomaking, painting, music, or another arts class in addition to their regular class. Different efterskoles have different focuses–for example, Nanna went to one that was sports-oriented, so she participated in all kinds of sports and fitness activities. Because it’s a boarding school, the students all live on the campus in dorm-like rooms, with mixed gender halls and bathrooms. They are responsible for doing their laundry and for cleaning the school itself (there are no custodians) and all students get a week-long kitchen shift during the year when they are responsible for helping to make the meals instead of going to class. The teacher we talked to said that the students grow up a lot during this year because of this opportunity for independence, and some of them complain about returning to regular school where everyone seems immature. It’s also a chance for them to further explore an interest of theirs, and figure out what they are really interested in doing. We discussed how so many American students can pay so much money for school and graduate still not knowing what they want to do with themselves. In Denmark, college students get paid to go to school–up to $1000/month for up to about 5 years of school! After that, it’s still free, they just don’t get a stipend. Danes also tend to take more time with their education, taking a year off here and there, and switching programs if they want to, because they don’t have to worry about “wasting their money.” It’s amazing to think about what a difference that must make in how students approach their education and what they are able to accomplish.

The system is not entirely stable though. There will be an election very soon on September 15th that everyone is talking about. Last week the Prime Minister announced when the election would be, which kickstarted three weeks of intense campaigning. No one is allowed to start before it is announced, and the Prime Minister could have chosen to announce it anytime before this November. The very day it was announced, people were already putting up advertisements for candidates, and there are people handing out pamphlets everywhere. Obviously I can’t understand the conversations happening on the news about the election, but from what I have gathered, there has been a Conservative party in control and it looks like there might be the possibility of a changeup in the election. Unlike in the U.S., the Danes have a multiparty system so there’s about nine parties right now, and they have to form alliances in order to make their policies happen. The financial crisis is a big factor in the election, and there are people who would like to cut back on the extensive social programs. Please don’t quote me on any of this information, because it is just coming from my memory of a few conversations with teachers and my host family, but I think this is the gist. Anyway, the teacher we talked to at the efterskole says that the school is getting too expensive for some kids to pay for because the government has been cutting back on its funding. They are not at their full capacity right now, and some other efterskoles have had to close because they didn’t have enough students. We will see quite soon what direction Denmark is likely to be heading in for the next few years.

Our visit to the efterskole ended quite early, at about 10:30am (our field study was scheduled until noon), and the teacher we’d been talking to offered to let us stay to see some classes, but I think everyone was exhausted so we all opted to leave at that point. We were also told we could come back any day to visit the English class, and it’s possible some of us will end up doing our learning lab (a requirement of the Adolescence in Northern Europe class) there, so perhaps I will visit again soon! :)

On the walk back, our teacher invited us to a youth activism cafe nearby where she would buy us coffee. I think a lot of people were tired and had other activities later, because only three of us ended up staying. It ended up being really nice though, because we could have a pleasant conversation while we walked instead of being a huge herd of students. The cafe turned out to be pretty cool, and they had a lot of materials on different youth activism groups that our teacher showed us. Plus she bought us each a drink and a snack, so I got a yummy hot chocolate (with whipped cream, of course) and a croissant. It was fun to chat for a while (in stark contrast to how I’d been feeling earlier that morning), especially with my teacher who is really cool and knows a lot about the youth in Denmark. She told us about some of the less-good things, which you don’t hear about very often because everyone is talking about the free schooling and the positive parts of the Danish school system. She also used to live in the U.S. so she kind of understands both sides, and we had a very interesting conversation comparing our home school districts and the American school system vs. the Danish one.

After our snack, I headed home, which ended up taking a while because I walked all the way back to DIS with the (small) group instead of taking the Metro, and then at the train station there was something strange going on with the schedule. There were  a lot of announcements, all in Danish, and I thought I heard Hillerød, so I got a little concerned because I didn’t see my train on the ticker (is that what you call it?). I asked a Danish woman what the announcements had been about, and I think she thought I just didn’t know how to get to Hillerød, because she told me to just take the E train (the one I usually take). She wasn’t entirely sure if it was coming, because she said they hadn’t mentioned the E train going in my direction, only the one going the other way, which was apparently the one having trouble. I was pretty confused, but I was pretty tired and didn’t want to go wandering around the station trying to find the train office to ask for a clearer explanation, so I just waited a second and then my train popped up on the ticker(?). I was quite relieved to be headed home for a nap and relaxation before my Danish cafe night.

When I did finally get home, I was so exhausted that I just took a nap (only a short one though–about half an hour) instead of making myself lunch, which I still hadn’t eaten. By the time I got up it was already about 3 or 4pm, so I decided to just wait until dinnertime rather than risk not being hungry for my free dinner. It was nice to have a relaxing afternoon, since I didn’t have any homework I had to get done that day, so I relaxed a while before it was time to leave for cafe night.

I was nervous, because I felt responsible for Nanna and Cille having a good time, and I wasn’t sure what the event would be like. I expected that they would probably be the only host siblings there, since only one other person in my class had mentioned bringing anyone, and I figured the other classes would probably be the same. Still, I thought it would be a good opportunity to hang out with them without their parents and I hoped it would be a good experience for them as well. On the train ride there, we were all pretty quiet, and I was worried that the night would proceed somewhat awkwardly. We found the restaurant successfully, but we arrived about 10 min. early and there were very few people from our group there, and it was still very quiet. After a few minutes, though, a huge group of Americans wandered in and things started to pick up. I think Nanna and Cille were a bit overwhelmed at first because everyone was speaking English, loudly and quickly. Also, just as I expected, there were only 3 other Danes there–my Danish teacher, one girl’s Danish buddy, and his friend. As the night went on and people got past the introduction phase, I think everybody got more comfortable, and Nanna and Cille were both able to contribute to the conversation as well. It ended up being really fun, and I got some pretty yummy food as well–orange soda and chili con carne. As soon as the food started coming out, I was worried that I should have gotten the lasagna because it looked pretty good and I was concerned about the ability of a French-themed Danish cafe to make Mexican food. The chili turned out to be really delicious though, maybe even better than the lasagna, so I think I made the right decision.

After dinner, we left a bit earlier than the rest of the group because I knew Nanna and Cille had homework and things to do at home. As soon as we got out of the cafe, I could tell they’d had a good time because they were about ten times more talkative than they’d been on the way in. They said the dinner had sounded like a chicken farm, because all the Americans were so chatty and loud. Not a very Danish way of doing things. This was confirmed when we were at the train station, which was raised above the street, and we could hear the rest of the Americans coming from a few blocks away. On the train home, we sat with Sally, who is in my Danish class and also lives with a host family in Hillerød. It ended up being really fun to have Nanna and Cille along because they could correct our Danish pronunciations, which are pretty abysmal most of the time.

Though the day started out pretty rough, it ended up being really fun, and full of delicious (and free!) food (always the most important thing for me). Sometimes the number of activities DIS has us doing seems overwhelming, but I think they do a good job of planning entertaining events and getting all 900 students to get to know each other a bit better. This weekend I’m going on a trip to Helsingør (or Elsinore, as it’s known in English) and Kronborg Castle, a.k.a. the setting for Hamlet! It’s my first optional DIS day trip, so I’m pretty excited. Allie went last week and said there’s a great ice cream place there, so that is top on my list to find. I also just found out that Jenn is signed up for the trip as well, so I’ll have a least one buddy to explore the town and castle with. Plus the weather’s supposed to be good (let’s hope) so it will potentially be super fun. On Friday I’m also attending my first Buddy Network event–a dinner in Christiania–so the weekend is already looking pretty jam-packed.

It’s hard to believe that we’ve been here almost two weeks. Earlier this week, I couldn’t believe it had only been a week, but now two weeks seems like so long. Our short study tour is next weekend, so I’ll be off to somewhere in Western Denmark for three days. This semester is going by so quickly and slowly at the same time, and I feel like there’s so much I still need to see and do. Yes, I know it’s only September 1st and I’m being a bit overdramatic, but the days are filling up quickly and I don’t want to run out of time to do all the things you’re supposed to do when you come to Denmark. Speaking of time, though, it’s about 10pm now and I still have some homework to get done, so I guess I will have to cut this rant short. Hopefully I will manage another blog update or two before my weekend in Western Denmark! :)

Until then, hej hej!

P.S. So far I have two posts about chickens? Maybe this will become a regular thing.

There’s a First Time for Everything

5 Aug

So, there’s about two weeks before I leave for Denmark, and I’m pretty much freaking out. In good way though. Mostly. I’ve just finished up my main summer activity (volunteering), so I’ve basically got the next while to hang out with my friends a couple more times, finish up Operation DressLikeARealPeople , and do all the stuff I’ve been putting off all summer, including LearnToCookLikeARealPeople. Basically, my to-do list is getting a little out of hand. Since I can’t accept that I’ll actually make it to Denmark in one piece and live there for 4 months, some part of my brain has decided that the world, or at least my experience of it, will end on August 20, and thus everything I want to do must happen before then. Now that I’m hitting the two week mark, I’m beginning to realize a few things.

  1.  The world will probably not end in the next two weeks.
  2.  I feel entirely unprepared for my life.
  3. Time will not stop because I feel unprepared. If I do not become prepared by August 20 (unlikely at this juncture), my life will happen anyway, and a plane will whisk me away to northern Europe.

Most of this has come to me in the last few hours, and there have been many feelings. Now, I want to be clear–it’s not that I’m not excited to study abroad. I’ve been anticipating this for at least six months and it’s finally almost here. I’m beside myself. Which, I suppose, is kind of the point.

Well, I should wrap this up. I’m excited and terrified and there’s a lot of feelings. Developments will ensue next week, when I find out where I’m living (!) and restart my Anticipation.

Until next week. :]

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